The Hope for Healing Program – what is it?
The Hope for Healing Program is a method of increasing personal empowerment. When we feel hopeless, anxious, full of despair, or have a victim mentality, we feel powerless. In order to heal, we need to get our power back. I’m not talking about a hierarchical type of power, where a person exerts power or force over another person. I’m talking about personal power. Power to overcome our challenges, power to find solutions to our own problems, power to be resilient, power to heal, power to let go, power to move forward, power to feel comfortable in our own skin. This kind of power brings confidence, happiness, strength, and inner peace. So how do we get this power? It comes through a combination of learning and doing. Education is a necessary step, but by itself it’s not enough, it’s through application that we begin to awaken the power that is already inside of us.
The Hope for Healing program is simply a plan of action to help people change and upgrade the way that they think and the way that they feel. It’s designed to do something to bring about positive changes in mental and emotional well being. Action changes things.
In a nutshell, the program consists of organizing simple emotional wellness tools into an effective progressive schedule that is designed to help empower people to regain a sense of peace and control in their lives. Following this simple program consistently brings about significant changes in the way a person thinks and feels and I’ll explain how and why it works.
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30 Days to Alleviate Depression
30 Days to Alleviate Depression is a free ebook with a comprehensive action plan specifically designed to help empower people who are struggling with feelings of depression.
Following this 30 day course is an excellent companion to professional treatment and medication to help with relieving symptoms, boosting mood, regaining confidence and improving control over your life.
Are you ready to choose happiness?
Pathway to Happiness
Pathway to Happiness is a free ebook designed with flexibility in mind. This book contains a wealth of emotional tools that can be used to help with a variety of mental and emotional issues.
Do you want to boost confidence and self esteem? Become more productive? Increase happiness? Overcome feelings of depression and anxiety?
Pathway to Happiness can help you achieve your personal wellness goals. Unlock the answers that are already inside of you.
The Hope for Healing Program – how does it work?
According to cognitive behavioral scientists, our thoughts, emotions, and behaviors are strongly interconnected. Therefore, by modifying any of those aspects, we have power to influence the other aspects. We can influence our thoughts and emotions by modifying our behavior, and we can influence our behavior by modifying our thoughts and emotions.
Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) helps you become aware of inaccurate or negative thinking so you can view challenging situations more clearly and respond to them in a more effective way.
According to the Mayo Clinic, CBT can be a very helpful tool ― either alone or in combination with other therapies ― in treating mental health disorders, such as depression, and can also be an effective tool to help anyone learn how to better manage stressful life situations.
You have more power than you may realize
What you believe about yourself and how you view the world are significant factors in the recovery from anxiety, depression, stress, chaotic relationships, and many other issues. So how do you change and upgrade how you think and how you feel?
One of the most important aspects of healing and recovering from any mental or emotional issue is the belief that change is possible. Researchers call this “positive expectancy,” and it figures prominently in whether or not therapy or treatment of any kind is successful.
In order to do the hard work of changing or healing, we have to believe that change is actually an option. The good news is that change really is an option. Healing is possible.
With the Hope for Healing program, you have more power than you may realize. We have a proven system to alleviate symptoms of depression and anxiety; and to build happiness, confidence, and self esteem. It is a program based on sound scientific principles that work. It takes effort, but it is possible.
Not just an “emotional issue”
Feelings of depression, anxiety, low self esteem, low self confidence, worry, etc. are not just emotional issues. Our mental, emotional, and physical well being are all interconnected. As we learn more about the function of the brain we gain greater awareness that there are chemical reactions that influence the way we feel and the way we think.
In order to heal from depression, anxiety, worry, stress, low self esteem, etc. we need to successfully do two things: first, we need to alter the chemistry in our bodies and our brains, and second, we need to redirect the focus of a particular system in the brain called the Reticular Activating System (or RAS).
In order to heal from depression, anxiety, worry, stress, low self esteem, low self-confidence, etc. we need to successfully do two things:
- first, we need to alter the chemistry in our bodies and our brains, and
- second, we need to redirect the focus of the RAS or Reticular Activating System to change the programs of our subconscious.
Let’s start with the chemistry of the brain. There are valid, physiological and chemical explanations for feelings of depression, anxiety and so on. It’s not just simply a matter of “snapping out of it.” This is why professional help and medication are so beneficial for anxiety and depression. But in addition to those options, it’s also possible for a person to create changes in their body chemistry by their actions. Through MRI scans we have proof that changes in thinking and behavior can cause measurable changes in brain chemistry and function.
Let me repeat that. We can do things that alter the chemistry in our brains.
There’s a whole branch of science called epigenetics dedicated to research on how our attitudes and behaviors can positively or negatively affect our health. The new findings are great news because it means that we can change many things about the way we are, including our mental and emotional health. We have more power than you might think and that’s exciting.
I’ll give a quick example. You can increase confidence and boost mood in just 90 seconds by doing this one simple trick. Put your chin up, smile (even if you don’t feel like it). Pull your shoulders back, stand straight and tall with your hands relaxed at your sides or on your hips. Keep both feet pointing forward and keep weight even on both legs. Hold this position for 90 seconds.
Science shows that doing these things will not only make you appear more confident and happy; it actually makes you feel more confident and happy. Charles Darwin was actually the first to hypothesize that there is a connection between body language and our emotion that goes both ways. We smile when we feel good, but we also feel good when we smile.
Today that theory is called the facial feedback hypothesis and it has been verified in study after study after study. The physical expressions of our body language influence our emotional experience and it does it on a physiological, chemical level.
Standing tall, pulling the shoulders back, and raising the chin causes a slight increase in the level of testosterone which boosts confidence, while simultaneously lowering the level of stress hormones. Furthermore, smiling, even if it’s a fake or forced smile, stimulates the production of mood-enhancing neurotransmitters in the brain that can help us feel better. So by doing a simple action that takes less than two minutes, we can modify the levels of chemicals in our body to increase confidence, boost mood, and relieve stress and the effects can last for a couple hours.
Our body language, our actions, our words, and our thoughts can affect the chemistry in our body which in turn affects the way that we feel.
Don’t think that it will be easy or that a change will occur overnight. It won’t be like flipping on a lightswitch. It is gradual, like a sunrise, and requires small, consistent, positive action steps.
What is the “RAS” and why does it matter?
In addition to altering the chemistry in our bodies, we need to redirect the focus of a system in our brain called the Reticular Activating System or RAS in order to heal from depression, anxiety, worry, stress, low self-esteem, etc.
There is a network of neurons located in the brain stem called the Reticular Activating System (or RAS) which is the gateway into the brain. All of the sensory information that we encounter first enters through the RAS which determines where to send it. The Reticular Activating System acts as a filter so we don’t become overwhelmed by an overload of information.
The job of the RAS is very important because it is estimated that the human brain takes in 11 million bits of information every second, but on average we’re only consciously aware of 40 bits of information per second. So when I say that the RAS filters information, I’m not talking about filtering out a little bit of information, I’m talking about a major filtration process reducing input from 11 million down to 40. It is the job of the RAS to decide what is important and what can be safely ignored. When the RAS is deficient, such as in cases of autism, ADD, and ADHD, too much information is allowed into the conscious mind and it causes a sensory overload and a difficulty in concentration and ability to focus. So the job of the RAS is very important to our safety, comfort, and functionality.
Our focus determines what is considered “important”
However, the next question is, or should be, how does the RAS decide which information is important? It makes those decisions based on automatic programming that you and I created without even being aware of it. It is done on a subconscious level and is largely determined by what we focus on. If we spend a lot of time focusing on a particular thing, then the automatic subconscious programming of the RAS assumes that information must be important.
That’s why when you’re trying to buy a new car and have been researching a particular make and model, all of the sudden you start to notice that car everywhere. Or if you’re expecting a baby, all of a sudden you see pregnant women everywhere. The truth is that the cars and those expectant mothers were there all along, but the RAS considered that information to be something that was safe to ignore. However, now that you’re focusing on it, the RAS figures that it must be important so it points them out for you.
How this natural system affects mental and emotional issues
This normal and natural system of the RAS causes some problems when we’re dealing with mental and emotional issues such as depression, anxiety, and low self esteem. A person who is struggling with depression is often focused on thoughts like: my life is miserable, people would be better off without me, there is no hope, etc. A person who is struggling with feelings of anxiety is often focused on thoughts like: I’m not safe, I’m in danger, etc. A person who is struggling with feelings of low self esteem often has circulating thoughts like: I’m not good enough, nobody likes me, I’m a failure, etc. Because these are the predominant thought patterns, the RAS uses this as the basis for determining what is important.
This means that anything that doesn’t support those negative feelings are filtered out and the only information that enters the conscious are those things that support the depression, anxiety, low self esteem, failure mentality, etc. This strengthens and builds on the problem by continually adding “evidence” that the feelings of depression, anxiety, worry or low self esteem are valid, and the situation becomes progressively worse.
However, if we consciously change the focus of our words and our thoughts, then the RAS gradually changes its programming to allow in positive thoughts, happiness, confidence, success, feelings of peace and safety, etc. As the subconscious programming changes, it changes the way we feel and the way we view the world around us.
There will be obstacles
Change is not easy. In fact the process of change can be worse for a while than just experiencing the feelings of depression, anxiety, low self worth, etc.
One of the reasons that it is so difficult is the automatic programming that is already in place in our subconsious mind. For example, the Reticular Activating System or RAS has a job to do and it takes its job seriously. When your automatic subconscious programming is focused on being miserable, discouraged, fearful, worried, worthless, hopeless, and helpless, then the RAS figures that these are the things that are important, so it filters out anything that isn’t miserable, hopeless, helpless, discouraging, etc. Furthermore, when we make a conscious effort to say or do something that is contrary to the current subconscious programming, the subconscious considers this a dangerous threat and sends out a warning that in order to be safe, you need to go back.
When that warning hits, it feels like running into an impenetrable wall, and people naturally give up. When I was going through this process, I hit that wall immediately and I wanted to give up on day one. It’s difficult to adequately describe, but it literally felt like I was going to die. I felt all the emotional and physiological symptoms as if my life was being threatened, and my subconscious warned me that the only safe option was to quit and go back. It was awful. Indescribably awful.
Emotional first aid kit to the rescue
Fortunately, I had been warned that this would happen so I knew what to do. To get through that wall I used one of the tools in my emotional first aid kit. An emotional first aid kit is a list of simple tools or actions that cause an immediate, although temporary, positive effect, like singing for example, and that’s what I did. I cranked up one of Shakira’s songs, called Try Anything from the movie Zootopia and sang along.
I’ll quickly explain why singing would help. Singing has been scientifically proven to lower stress, relieve anxiety, and elevate endorphins which make you feel uplifted and happy. It helps relax muscle tension and decreases the levels of the stress hormone cortisol in the blood stream. It can also help take your mind off your troubles to boost your mood. Research shows that our brain waves actually synchronize somewhat with the rhythm of the music which can calm us down or boost our energy and motivation depending on our need and the type of music we’re using.
In addition to these benefits, scientists have identified a tiny organ in the ear called the sacculus, which responds to the frequencies created by singing. The response creates an immediate sense of pleasure, regardless of what the singing sounds like so you don’t have to have an amazing voice to feel the positive effects of singing.
Participants in one study showed significant decreases in both anxiety and depression levels after one month of simply adding singing to their daily routine. Listening to music and singing are powerful tools in our arsenal to fight against depression.
In my case, when I hit this wall, singing a song through once wasn’t enough, I had to repeat it three times before the feelings of panic that my life was in mortal danger subsided, and I knew I would survive.
The remedy is surprisingly simple, but it takes some courage to follow through. Remember that I was in a situation where I literally felt like my life was being threatened and that I was going to die and the correct response to those feelings was to sing a song?! That felt really counter intuitive.
Think about it for a minute, if you’re watching a movie and a monster is chasing somebody, they don’t jump out and sing a song, they hide or run away. If they sing a song, then the monster will find them and eat them, but if they hide or run away there’s a chance of escape. The natural response when you’re feeling threatened is to hide or run away. It takes courage to do something different. It gets easier when you’ve tried it a few times and know for yourself that it works, but it’s challenging, especially at first.
Either YOU become stronger or the WALL becomes stronger
Walls are going to happen. It’s not a matter of if, but when. And there will likely be more than one, but there are ways to push through these walls and keep going. When you push through, you become stronger, but I need to warn you that if you give up, the walls become stronger.
If we continue to push through these walls and keep going, then our thoughts and feelings slowly change and the RAS naturally adjusts its programming to allow positive input without fighting or outright rejecting it.
A temporary setback
So this fight with our subconscious and our RAS is temporary during a transition period, but it is also inevitable, and this causes many people to give up because they don’t understand what’s happening. All they know is that there is a warning voice in their head that they’re not safe and so they quit and retreat.
Some people may even say, “Oh, I’ve tried emotional wellness tools, and they don’t work.” Well, chances are that they did try one or even a couple and then they hit a wall when their subconscious warned them that they weren’t safe so they stopped and gave up.
Giving up doesn’t create positive change and healing; but small, consistent, positive action steps do.
The Hope for Healing Program empowers people to take control of their lives
But because you read this article, you have greater knowledge. Now if you hit a wall you will know what is happening, why it’s happening, and what to do about it.
This knowledge empowers us to be able to get past roadblocks that might impede our growth, progress and healing. You can do this! And I promise that it’s worth it!
While healing from depression or any mental and emotional issue isn’t quick or easy, we have more power and control that most people realize. The secret is to start small and take a single step, followed by another step and another step. Taking the first step is usually the hardest, but one simple step can significantly boost your mood and energy for several hours, which can put you in a good place to take a second step. The Hope for Healing program guides you through a process of small positive steps day by day that lifts the heavy fog of depression, anxiety, worry, low self esteem, etc. to reveal the sunshine of hope, happiness, confidence, self worth, and feelings of peace and safety. This process really works. I know because it worked for me.
I spent about five years struggling with debilitating depression. It felt as if I had fallen into a pit of despair that was so deep that no sunlight, hope, or happiness could enter. There were no windows or doors in this dark abyss and I couldn’t see any means of escape. I thought the best I could hope for was to endure through each day. And then someone offered me the hope that there was something I could do to become happy again. It was as if she presented me with a ladder and invited me to climb out of my darkness. I didn’t believe that it would work, but I was desperate enough to give it a try and that decision changed my life.
The steps were simple, but it wasn’t easy. Yes, it’s hard, but you can do hard things. You are already doing hard things.
Hope for Healing Program – you have more power and control than you may realize
In conclusion, we have more power over depression and anxiety than we may realize. We have more power over feeling worthy of love and belonging than we may realize. We have more power over self esteem and confidence than we may realize. The secret is to start small and take a single step, followed by another step and another step. Using an emotional first aid kit to work through the walls that present themselves. The Hope for Healing program consists of small, consistent action steps that bring about positive change and healing. This process really works; it is based on sound scientific principles and verified by personal experience. It worked for me and it can work for you.
Small, consistent positive actions steps can alter the chemistry in the brain and help redirect the focus of the Reticular Activating System. These two changes make all the difference.
The Hope for Healing program consists of organizing simple emotional wellness tools into an effective progressive schedule that includes a short morning routine, a simple daily task, and a short evening routine. Following this simple program consistently brings about significant changes in the way a person thinks and feels.
Change is possible. Healing is possible.
I invite you to join with me in making the world a better place by working on the only person you truly have the power to change… yourself. Please accept our invitation to do something today that your future self will thank you for. Hope for Healing has a proven system to alleviate symptoms of depression and anxiety and to build confidence and self esteem. We also have blog articles and a list of suggested resources to assist you on your journey.
You deserve a life filled with love, happiness, belonging, positive self worth, confidence, success, and joyful relationships. These things are possible and attainable. You can do this!
Q. Is the Hope for Healing program expensive?
A. No. It’s actually free. At Hope for Healing our primary objective is to help as many people as possible to heal and experience joy in their lives. We offer a free ebook called “30 Days to Alleviate Depression” which is a guidebook specifically designed to help people overcome symptoms of depression. We also offer a free ebook called “Pathway to Happiness“ which is designed to be flexible in order to meet a variety of needs. Both of these free resources include a simple step-by-step action plan to awaken the answers that are already inside of you.
We also recommend reading “Crushed,” a real life personal narrative of the amazing transformative process that comes from following this simple program, and “You Got This! an action plan to calm fear, anxiety, worry, and stress” available on Amazon.
Q. Are the emotional wellness tools (or action steps) in the Hope for Healing program difficult or time consuming?
A. No. The Hope for Healing emotional wellness tools (or action steps) are simple and don’t take a lot of time. The plan is organized into a short morning routine that takes about 15 minutes, an evening routine that takes about 15 minutes and a daily action step that can take as little as 15 minutes. Whoever you are and whatever your circumstances, this is simple enough that you can do this.
Q. How soon can I expect to see results?
A. Most people begin to see noticeable positive results within 30 days if they follow the Hope for Healing program consistently. However, complete healing takes longer. It is important to continue using simple positive action steps to progress towards complete healing. Use these tools to create lifelong habits to maintain mental and emotional wellbeing.
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Free help for depression. 30 Days to Alleviate Depression is an easy-to-follow guidebook to help alleviate symptoms of depression. Complete, step by step coaching guides you through each day explaining not only what to do, but why it works.
You Got This! is a thoroughly researched, easy-to-read, well-designed action plan with a variety of effective cognitive behavioral therapy tips and tricks that will empower you to you decrease stressors; increase coping skills; increase confidence; increase resilience; increase feelings of calmness, safety, and peace; and find solutions to your problems.
Emotional First Aid Kit
An emotional first aid kit can provide an immediate, although temporary, positive effect on the way we think and feel. Having an emotional first aid kit readily available can help people who are struggling with symptoms of depression, anxiety, low self esteem, or other mental and emotional issues.
What to do when you hit an emotional wall
Why is it that people start off with great intentions towards change and self improvement only to become discouraged and give up? This article explains why that might happen and how to work through emotional walls when they arise. Being properly informed empowers us to keep going and experience healing, peace, and growth.
A message of hope to those suffering from depression
I understand the feelings of despair, helplessness, and hopelessness of depression because I’ve experienced it for myself. There is a way out. You have more power than you may realize. I invite you to learn how to climb out of the darkness and experience happiness again.